Now that we block when enqueueing to the decryption queue,
there is only one case in which we "drop" a inbound element,
when decryption fails.
We can use a simple, obvious, sync-free sentinel for that, elem.packet == nil.
Also, we can return the message buffer to the pool slightly later,
which further simplifies the code.
Signed-off-by: Josh Bleecher Snyder <josh@tailscale.com>
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